Fuck Buddy? Where?

[zenmondo]

So I logged into OKCupid to take a quiz that looked like fun. I am back on my homescreen, and at the top is a banner ad for sexsearch.com proclaiming, "Meet a Fuck Buddy in ... CHEYENNE".

And I am all, do they KNOW how far a drive that is? Certainly I have driven hours for a fuck before (but more than just that) but in my life right now, it would be incredibly inconvenient. If I were after such a thing, I would want a local person.

I don't know if I could HAVE a fuck buddy. I have fallen in love or was in love with everyone I have ever had sex with. I tried once to have meaningless sex, I really did. We fell in love. I still remember the first time she said, "I Love you". It was such a big deal because we started out with her saying, "I am NOT going to fall in love with you."

I think the closest thing to a fuck-buddy I could possibly imagine actually having is making love to a friend for mutual comfort, fun, and love. I don't think that will happen, but it is in the realm of imagination that I could be alright with in real life. Kind of like a movie-star crush. I have one movie star crush right now, but I know its not going to happen ever.. I mean when am I ever gonna be in the same city as Alan Cumming? Never gonna happen, but fun to think about.

Comments

[fledchen.livejournal.com]

People have no conception about how far certain cities are from each other. Thus, the computer matching programs people write often have the same bias.

[nectarfizz.livejournal.com]

um....ok..you silly wabbit.

[deziah.livejournal.com]

Fuck Buddies are convienient, but the charge of having sex with someone you love is that much better. Don't get me wrong, some of the best sex I ever had was a one night stand---but there is just so much more emotion that the whole pleasure takes on another dimension.
I have to be attracted to someone to have sex with them. And I believe with attraction there is always some minute bit of emotion....which can easily spiral out of control leading to love. Hahahaha!
Ok. I am off on a tangent now. Perhaps I will write about it in my journal. Stay tuned.

[blizzardskies.livejournal.com]

I hate how the one-night spammers have infested OKCupid.
But what I wouldn't do for a fuck-buddy right now.

Too bad I don't drive. ;)

[zenmondo.livejournal.com]

But as one of the female pursuasion, you don't need to drive. Just let it be known that you want sex, and the guys will come beating down your door... but if you are picky, I wouldn't take the first person that knocks.

[joannastar.livejournal.com]

Yeah, but from my perspective, Casper and Cheyenne are really close to each other - they're in the same State! ;)