
I recently had an insight into just what marriage counselors might do.
Let us assume that a marriage counselor wants to make the most money they can, and to do that, we all know that the key to success is repeat business.
So wouldn't follow that if a marriage counselor wanted to make as much money as possible, his or her aim would have to be twofold:
1) Keep the Couple together.
2) Keep the Couple miserable.
The first is obvious, if a marriage counselor were to say, "This situation is hopeless, you should split up," then the services would no longer be needed. Likewise, if a counselor gave good advice that actually solved the couple's problems, they would not need to return.
I think being a marriage counselor must be one of the trickiest jobs out there. I think it is a profession that rewards mediocrity. If a marriage counselor was actually so good to help solve problems, there would not be enough repeat business to be successful. If one was so bad that every couple broke up after seeing them, they too would not have enough business (or enough of a good reputation) to keep the shingle hanging.