Dont be the nice guy. YOu dont have to be a dick, but dont lay down and take it either. Be strong, be powerful, and make sure you arent getting the short end of the deal. If you are having a hard time doing that for yourself (you may be feeling selfish) then do it ALL for Conner. THAT you can justify.
And another thing...
Date: 2006-09-27 12:41 am (UTC)Best of luck