We don't really know each other outside of LJ posts, but I am sending you the best energy I can.
These things are never easy. The best advice I can give is to stay centered as you can, and don't burn bridges. It's good that you are both getting along decently now. Things will probably get more difficult for a while, then thankfully, if you both want it, it can at least become something workable in the future. It took me a while to not be angry at my ex, and she at me, but I think we have finally gotten there, even if we still occasionally get one each others nerves.
Now is a great time to keep a private paper journal if you are not already. That and get back to the dojo, you will want and need that physical expression, and the centering it offers.
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These things are never easy. The best advice I can give is to stay centered as you can, and don't burn bridges. It's good that you are both getting along decently now. Things will probably get more difficult for a while, then thankfully, if you both want it, it can at least become something workable in the future. It took me a while to not be angry at my ex, and she at me, but I think we have finally gotten there, even if we still occasionally get one each others nerves.
Now is a great time to keep a private paper journal if you are not already. That and get back to the dojo, you will want and need that physical expression, and the centering it offers.