First of all I'm very sad to hear this Zen. I had so much admiration for you both. On how even though you two have so many obstacles to overcome seeing the strength in both of you made me very proud of the two of you.

I don't necessary agree with her thinking about refusing to work things out or finding ways to fix things. I feel it has nothing to do with how one is taken serious about something but everything to do with love, respect, and compromise.

I won't say anything since I don't know the whole story. I do know there are people here who care about you.

*Hugs*

-Megs